Fear of mistakes in sport: how to compete more freely
Fear of mistakes stops an athlete from taking the initiative: they choose the safe action, decide too late and lose rhythm.
How it shows up in athletes
- avoiding actions that are risky but necessary
- freezing after the first inaccurate movement
- constant self-criticism
- waiting to see how the coach or parents react
Why it happens
- being punished for mistakes in the past
- perfectionism
- comparing yourself with stronger athletes
What you can do on your own
- separate the mistake from your worth as a person
- set a time limit on the review after training
- practise deliberate mistakes in safe drills
Exercises
- rate the consequences of a mistake from 1 to 10
- a recovery phrase after a miss
- take one useful conclusion from the review
- practise the next action after a mistake
Mini self-check
Mark which statements match your situation. If two or more apply, it is worth discussing the topic with a specialist.
- After a mistake I cannot get back into the game for a long time.
- I choose easy actions so I will not make a mistake.
- The coach's criticism knocks me off badly.
- I am afraid of letting the team down.
When you need a sports psychologist
If the challenge keeps recurring, lowers your results, or affects sleep, recovery or your desire to keep training, it is better not to wait for it to take hold. Sports Talk helps you start with an assessment and find a specialist for your situation.
Example situation
A goalkeeper started playing deeper in the crease after letting a puck in. A short protocol helped: name the mistake, choose the next action, get back into the stance.
Questions from athletes on this topic
Common questions
Can the fear of mistakes be removed completely?
The aim is not to make the fear disappear. It is to keep acting even when a miss is possible.
What should a coach do?
Separate technical feedback from a judgement of the person, and train the reaction to a mistake as its own skill.